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My top attitude changes for a happy life

The attitudes that you have about yourself, others and the circumstances around you have a huge impact on your ability to be happy.

if you have a calm and rational attitude to all of those things then it stands to reason that you will be able to deal with any problems that occur without an overly emotional response.

1: Understanding that you are responsible for your emotions...

if you have read any of my previous blogs then you will have noticed that I make a big deal about what you think. This is because our thoughts affect our feelings which in turn affect our actions.

By understanding that our thoughts affect our feelings in any situation, we can learn to control our emotions.

Bad things happen to everyone. When something bad happens, it is perfectly normal to have a negative emotional response to the situation.

If you are in a car crash or going through a divorce or have lost someone then it makes sense to have negative thoughts about the situation because they are negative...

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How to overcome self doubt

When we doubt our abilities we hold ourselves back so much!!

There are many reasons why we may have developed doubts in ourselves so here are some suggestions that I have found work with both myself and also my clients...

Stop comparing accomplishments with others.

Number one in my book is to stop comparing yourself to others. I didn't get my degree until I was 30 years old, most of my friends got their degrees at the "normal" age. It really didn't matter that I got mine at a different time because I did it when it was right for me.

By comparing yourself unfavorably with others, you are opening the doors to feelings of inadequacy.

Ultimately everyone is on their own journey through life and will have ups and downs just like you so focus on what works best for you!!

Decide not to give a stuff what other people think.

This is hard to do but is so important for overcoming self doubt. Generally we worry what people think because we are scared of being judged.

Decide you don't give a...

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Anxiety disorders and long term effects of Anxiety

 

I talk about anxiety a lot obviously because that is a big part of what I do!!

I'm going to recap some stuff about anxiety but I'm also going to talk about some of the deeper issues that anxiety can cause because it is quite a difficult thing to deal with an ongoing basis, people actually can develop quite severe issues if anxiety is not dealt with.

I'm also going to talk through some different anxiety disorders as well and give you a very brief overview of what they are.

Anxiety recap

Anxiety is the fear  of a future event as to why we have that fear depends on the person, depends on the situation and depends on whether or not there's been a past issue.

It also depends on whether or not the person with anxiety is lacking in the personal self belief and their confidence to take on new things or situations.

Our perspective on a future event is also key to anxiety and I have talked extensively in workshops about how thoughts lead to feelings which lead to certain actions.

Common...

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